In March of 2005, Karen Haffey and Esther Kalaba met and quickly became friends - discovering a connectedness through sibling loss and in a love for art and its capacity to heal.

Collecting Loss was born from our vision to weave the threads of memory so many of us hold in life of those we love who have died. It is an exploration of stories held in the clothing of our deceased loved ones. This is the fabric which forms a community who remembers, and through that remembering, becomes open to the possibility that our shared stories may transform us and others who bear witness.

 

We are truly honoured to have received more than 100 contributions from people who have opened their hearts and trusted us - tenderly folding precious items of clothing and honest expressions of love and loss into envelopes, boxes and bags that became treasures we received through the spring and summer of 2007.

Click here for List of Collecting Loss Contributors

This Gallery contains a portrait of each item of clothing along with passages from the stories. It is our hope that contained within you will find a thread that touches you, comforts you, perhaps helps you to understand what a friend, co-worker, family member may be going through, and gives us all encouragement to be together in life, love and in honouring the dead.

The Collecting Loss Gallery represents a small part of what will be included in a public art exhibit and accompanying book aimed for 2011. The clothing you see here will be taken apart and sewn together to form new items of clothing. Just as the telling of our stories and the weaving of them together can bring about change within us, so too will these clothes be changed as we say out loud: "We remember."

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All photographs were made by photographer, Michael O'Brien, with art direction by Karen and Esther. We gratefully acknowledge Michael's extraordinary talent, heart and soul, along with that of webmaster, Mark Dininio, and musician, Mike Bégin, each of whom have worked with us to form this Gallery.

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